Why would you book me?

What’s my specialty?

I help guys to get out of their own heads, understand you, themselves and what a relationship needs

I mentioned on the home page that I’ve done thousands of meetings. Literally. All sorts.

Along with various courses offered by professionals.

So many men are trying so hard to “get over their BIG ISSUE” and often failing to do so.

I went wide in my reading, resources and practices, not restricting learning to any one concept.

Patterns emerged

I have not yet found any one theory, method, therapy or therapist’s advice that works comprehensively.

I practiced a bespoke range of activities to overcome my own deficits established in childhood.

I still practice them. Why? Because they work.

My relationship with myself, my wife and our adult children have never been better.

Now I teach them to others

The feedback I get in meetings is overwhelmingly positive.

“I need a David AI (my name, David) to talk to me when I can’t come to meetings”

“I’ve learnt more staying back and talking with you than I have in therapy”

“Let me know when you put a book out. I’ll be the first to buy”

“When are you starting a podcast?”

Many men didn’t have great role models. I didn’t.

The lens that I looked at life through was pretty crap. It was poorly formed.

Eventually I set about fixing it.

I speak from personal experience, not just theory. I can help your partner do the same.

With 28 years of marriage and a family of my own,

I found myself in various Zoom meetings daily, helping other guys clean up their mess.

As I got (and still get) so much positive feedback, I decided to go into coaching.

Pornography and extreme sexualization (and normalizing infidelity) in the media are happening now and damaging minds and relationships today, including those of younger generations.

It affected mine and it is certainly affecting others, noting many men I speak to were exposed to pornography very early in life.

Oprah Winfrey says, “Know better. Do better.”

John Lee says (to the male), “No one is coming for you.”

I get that you are in a whole world of pain. You have devoted your life to this man, and he has shat all over it.

Assign the cleanup operation to me.

Help me help him, to help you and your family. Make a booking for him.

With 28 years of marriage and a family of my own, I know I can help him to help you and repair or renew.

This problem, unfortunately, will not go away by itself.

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